Life as a Footballer’s Fiancee: The Reality of Being a WAG – Dealing with 3am Manager Calls After Giving Birth

Life as a Footballer’s Fiancee: The Reality of Being a WAG – Dealing with 3am Manager Calls After Giving Birth

The fiancee of a League Two footballer has offered an inside insight into her life on social media.

Kay Ludlow has amassed more than 40,000 followers on TikTok and has received more than 1 million likes on the social media platform discussing what it is like being with a professional footballer.

Ludlow’s partner is Morecambe captain Farrend Rawson and she recently detailed her anxiety towards where the pair will end up when his contract expires at the end of the season.  

‘Dating a professional footballer has lots of pros and cons,’ Ludlow explained on Tik Tok. 

‘With the transfer window just around the corner I’m starting to feel a little bit nervous about where we’re gonna end up going, especially because we’ve got two little kids.’

Kay Ludlow has gained an online following sharing her experiences as the partner of a footballer

Ludlow revealed her partner Farrend Rawson informed his manager he would be at training just hours after she gave birth

Ludlow revealed her partner Farrend Rawson informed his manager he would be at training just hours after she gave birth

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Ludlow also discussed the sacrifices players have to make that often requires them to be away from their families.   

‘Sometimes if they lose, some managers will bring the players in on a Sunday, it’s normally a family day and one of their days off.

‘So if you have any plans, you have to cancel them super last minute. He’s missed our kids’ birthdays. He trains on Christmas Day and he’s missed his brother’s wedding. 

‘This is just part of football, and it’s something that I’ve become really used to after being with him for 10 years.’

Ludlow also revealed that her partner had been in contact with his manager just minutes after she gave birth to inform him that he would be able to train the following day. 

‘Footballers are entitled to paternity pay, but when you’re dating a footballer, they don’t want to lose their place,’ she continued.

‘My partner was up in training the next day. I was two hours away from home, had a new baby, was recovering from surgery and had no help.

‘It was really emotionally quite tough. I’ve just given birth. I come out of the theatre. I’m just coming around from General anaesthetic and we’re still in the recovery room.

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The pair recently attended the English Football League Awards night together

Ludlow has received more than 1 million likes on Tiktok

The pair recently attended the English Football League Awards night together

‘I look over and I say, Who are you talking to? Made this agreement that we were gonna tell our families together so I was fuming. I was like, Who are you talking to on the phone right now?

‘It’s 3 a.m. In the morning, he was on the phone to the manager to tell him that he would make training the next day.’

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